Until I was about 30, I was generally emotionally deficient. This may come as a surprise to anyone who has followed me on social media since my whole platform is based on proper emotional feeling and processing, but now you know.

So how, exactly, was I emotionally deficient? Well, let…

This morning, a woman on my Instagram feed decided to share a diagram about whether or not mansplaining has occurred. The diagram assumed that the person doing the mansplaining was male. Ok, no problem.

Before I continue the story, let’s quickly define mansplaining. Mansplaining is the act of arrogantly explaining…

We all crave to be around authentic people, right? There’s something sketchy about the try hard, or the Over Intellectual, or any other archetype of person who wears masks to cover up their soft squishy vulnerable center. …

My spiritual mentorship program is underway and *pinch me* so far it’s been successful.

Total shocker, folks. I’ve been burned in the past by offering this mentorship and being abandoned by my very carefully chosen mentees. But I’ve put the guardrails up by letting the mentees choose me and asking…

Jon Tesser

I use data to understand people. I also help early career professionals find career happiness.

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